Righto, chad.
"it's often hard to try and define an objective line across which the negative repercussions of the former outweigh the felt benefits of the latter" (subjects in full length comment)
You make good points...thanks for adding. I agree, the cost/benefit analysis of xanga world can be complicated. The group therapy angle is also good to think about...I hadn't thought of it. I guess the only thing I'd hope is that cost/ben consideration not be totally ignored.
Anyway, moving on....do you ever feel alone, and hate it...but then get the chance to hang out with people and not take it because you're too consumed with feeling alone? It's almost logical it's so illogical.